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I'm sick as hell so I tried to do an eye look to make myself feel better, but I couldn't get a good picture so I said screw it 😂 I have an hour until the twins wake up so I'll be napping instead of taking 400 pictures to get one good one. Can anyone else relate ?



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As a mom of 4 boys I know how difficult it can be to hang out with your boo sans the kids. 😫 Hubby and I had to get real creative over the years. The 6th date is my fave!. Do you still date your spouse? ➡️







Can other moms back me up on this? This is what is abt. This is what you get, when you makeit the babies.



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Since yesterday’s tragic event unfolded I’ve just been thinking about Vanessa Bryant constantly. As a mother and wife I think about that moment she received the news and what went through her mind. Obviously I don’t know her, but I just want to hug her. I have prayed for god to give her strength, give her guidance, it’s all too much … losing your husband and daughter in the same day is beyond imaginable. I pray and pray that she has support and her truest of friends are beside her, helping her in this time and in the times to come .


I can’t stop thinking about what their last words may have been to each other. Did they give each other a kiss goodbye? A hug? In my mind, they did. In my mind, little Gigi ran to her bedroom to say goodbye, gave her a kiss and ran off with her daddy. What hurts more ? They both do, honestly but I think for ME, as much as I absolutely adore my husband, I think losing my daughter would have a lot more sting. Thinking about it hurts. I just imagine, and cry. But I dont know … or understand what she is going through. I hate that it takes something like this to stop us in our tracks. I was definitely jolted from mine. We take our loved ones being with us for granted and always think they’ll come back home. But that is not always the case.


I’m not much of a sports fan, but I always knew about Kobe Bryant. I’m from LA and he’s definitely a staple. Plus he’s from my generation and it just feels like we lost a childhood friend. I was lucky enough to have been to a Lakers game and watch from box seats many years ago. I’m reminded of watching games from home with my ex boyfriend. My cousin always updating his Facebook feed with the score and posting updates. “Lakeshow”


Ooooh so so unbelievable still.


Seriously, LOVE your people. Love them with everything you have. I felt anxiety today as my daughter left for school. I kissed and hugged her before dropping her off. I decided I wouldn’t let the baby’s cry frustrate me today and I would sit with her if she needed me too, the dishes really CAN wait. Eli wasn’t feeling well, he stayed home and asked if he could take a nap. I kept the baby occupied so he could rest, I rubbed his hair so he could doze off. Things I should always do, but with life constantly changing and busy schedules, I tend to always be chaotic and challenging to be in the moment. But I have to remember what is important.


We forget, well I forget sometimes, that we are all going to die one day, we don’t know what day or when … so while we are alive we just really need to LOVE and LIVE. LIVE TODAY, NOW! life is just too short. ❤


I’ll continue praying for this fellow mama, I don’t think there’s really anything else I can really do but offer prayers and ask god to give her as much strength, support, time and love that she needs right now.

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Mothering vs. Coddling

I’m going to have to be careful here… Hell, I just got into the biggest fucking fight with my sister-in-law about this exact topic; who I am not talking to at the moment because she absolutely is overprotective and babying my niece and nephew…to a point of manipulation. It’s frustrating for someone as independent and outspoken as I am… but this is not about her.

This is about idiot husbands who are so jealous of moms who protect and defend their children. They often call it “coddling”, “baby”, or the recent inspiration for this post “making excuses”. I am especially annoyed with those idiot fathers who are doing absolutely nothing with their lives, and yet want to demand more and better from their own children who we as moms are trying to nurture. It’s almost as if it becomes competitive… especially if you have a teenage boy.

For the record, I’m not overprotective. All of my children left for kindergarten with the biggest smiles on their face and an excited wave as they left me behind for their next adventure. They didn’t cling to my legs screaming to stay in the comfort of my womb. They left confident and secure and they made new friends quickly with ease. They adjusted well. They are kids. They are resilient and I am proud of them every day.They still need guidance, they need discipline, they need a mother’s reassurance and love.  Despite constant arguments and fights with my idiot husband about how situation should be handled or any minor mischief they may get into, it is my natural instinct to protect them and to love them before myself. That’s not cuddling. That’s not making excuses. That’s been a mom. 

How insecure does a father have to be to find competition and jealousy in the love that a mother gives her child?  It’s a rhetorical question so don’t even bother with an answer.

My suggestion for similar idiot fathers (because a friend said all of my ranting should at least be helpful - 🙄) show them how to be mature and teach them something you wish someone had taught you. Show your boys how to be men through your actions. Show your daughters how men should treat women through your actions. Instead of being jealous because of a mothers protection or love, understand it and accept it. Know your replace as the provider for the family and that you’re number one responsibility should be to take care of your wife, support her, love her, so that she can take care of your children. 

Because the truth is an idiot husband is always replaceable, but our children will always be our children. 

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A Baby Shower!

Not for my baby yet—okay? :) Last night was superb. I was invited to be part of a surprise baby shower for my friend Rita, who is seven months pregnant with a baby girl named Hailey Veronica. We’re all excited! 

Just a little background, Rita and I met in 2014 at church and from then on, she became one of my closest friends. I really admire how humble she is and how she treasures her friends and family most. She got married last year (2019) but I was not able to make it due to prior commitments. A bit sad but I promised myself to make up for the “lost” time. LOL. That’s why I marked my calendar and made sure I was 100% present for the baby shower! *winked!

Details were all PINK for baby Hailey! Too cute not to capture. 

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Rita had 100% no idea about the baby shower. Salute to her big sister who pulled it off! Still looking pretty even with a baby bump! 

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Victory Group ladies. MIA many to mention! :)

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