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Ain’t Too Proud to be Proud (but too awkward to tell you about it)

I recently realized that I have what I think is a weird hangup, but I can’t decide if I think that it’s a me thing or an everybody thing, so I figured I might as well blog about it.

I always feel super self conscious whenever I want to tell my friends that I’m proud of them; in my mind, it feels like it comes across as condescending. Who am I to be proud of people who I see as my peers? In my mind, I always sound like a kindergarten teacher patting a little kid on the head when I tell my friends I’m proud of them.

Thinking it through further, though, I never feel that way when a friend pays me that kind of compliment, so maybe I’m totally off base with this. Why should I feel weird about trying to pay someone a genuine compliment? I’d hope that if I knew someone well enough to want to express something like this that they would know to take it as intended.

Maybe it’s because I just don’t expect my friends to be proud of me. That sounds terrible and like the beginning of a pity party, and I seriously don’t intend it to be, so please don’t allow the response to this to be an outpouring of reassurances. I have exceptionally lovely friends, who are incredibly supportive, and I have no insecurities about how they feel about me. I think it’s just that I don’t rely on those relationships for that type of emotional connection, and I don’t consciously think “gosh, I hope that [insert friendly friend’s name here] is proud of me when they hear about this” the way I would with, say, my mom. 

Making this even more complicated now: my husband and I are equal partners, but I don’t have any qualms about telling him that I’m proud of him. I look for and, I am very grateful to report, get that from him, though, so I guess that makes sense with the thing that I realized in that last paragraph. Seems to be some sort of semi- “do unto others” type deal for me. 

At this point, I guess I’m just wondering if I’m alone on this front. Is it weird to tell your friends that you’re proud of them, or can I get to work on getting over that silliness and start handing out the high-fives?

[Quick Thoughts 12072019]

To be honest, I never thought that 2019 would end so quickly. Time goes by so quick… and honestly, it makes me think about life in general where the time goes by so fast.. .what if I forget to live life in this short of time? SIgh* 

Lord, I pray that you decrease my anxieties and bring happiness and positive people in my life. I am praying and wanting more happiness in life. I am so blessed to have a job full of fun and positive people. It is basically the only reason why I look forward to work. It is fun and basically my social life. Weird huh? I want to make more friends in life. I would do anything to have more friends and positive people in life. Well… not everything, haha! 

I would also like to thank my fiance for buying me Squidward’s painting, “Bold and Brash”. (You mean, it belongs in the trash!) Only Spongebob fans know! 

So far, I am trying to live a positive lifestyle. I am blessed… I am blessed. Blah - so many sh*t in my mind. It’s going crazy right now, but I must stay calm and happy.  I have an amazing fiance, friends, family and I am alive (by Celine Dion). 

Stay positive everyone…

xoxo - Pvff Mama


Christmas Time is Here!!! Already working on stocking up Christmas presents for all my friends and, yes, that includes my crush whose present this is. Hope he likes it! ❤

I’m sorry that I still like Friends but hear me out:

when Joey gets rich and famous he doesn’t change and he just let’s his friends borrow four dann grand so his best friend can do something he loves? and cant imagine a life without his friends so he lives so far below his means cause it means hes still in love with his best friend (we can talk about the homoeroticism later lol) like? that’s devotion right there and people still think hes just dumb? fight me in the Dunkin parking lot

feralhead  asked:

maple, harvest, fireside, cranberry, and cocoa!!

maple - is there a hobby / skill that you’ve always wanted to try but never did? i honestly cant think of anything rn

harvest - what fictional character do you most identify with? Why? any werewolf. u know why

fireside - if you had your dream wardrobe, what would it look like? moth cloak moth cloak moth cloak moth cloak mo- but also fringe jackets, lots of boots, mostly jackets tbh maybe some long coats OH i want a denim duster for some reason.

cranberry - what’s one physical feature that you get complimented on? my eyes most of the time

cocoa - if you could have any type of hair, what colour and cut would you have? honestly just thicker and wavy and i would have it kinda short like just over my eyes, maybe a gay mullet