We talk about letting go and mostly it’s about letting go of people.
Those people we don’t want to let go are more our projections we don’t want to let go.
To some we stay attached,
We desire those people in our life.
Sometimes we are addicted to the pain of not being wanted, or we project that this person will make us whole, or we project our dreams on them, or we project something that doesn’t want us to move on. Even when we think we don’t project anymore, there are still surprises.
Letting go goes so much further then letting go of the person.
There are many layers of projections.
Lower and higher vibrations, first visible ones are the lower vibration projections, those are often egoistic after follow the higher vibrations, “ the person is a aspect of my spiritual growth” by example. A person is not, the universe is, mb the person shows you what the universe wants to let you see, but the person is not doing this intentionally. What kan happen to is that higher - and lower vibration projections get mixed up, depends on your state of mind you are in at that moment.
The connection you feel can be real, but the blabla around the person, even the spiritual blabla is a projection. Much of those spiritual etiquettes like soulmate and twin flame , they just make confusion and mb let you hold on to someone you should let go. If a shaman tells you the person is “the one” it’s mb rather a lesson than the truth.
Love is a dream dreamed with 2. Connection are real, projections are not.