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It is not the that you but their way you before you see or do anything. Actions are just actions, though they have consequences, they cannot condemn you. But said will condemn, not only from you but those spoken deceitfully to you.



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We each build our career one decision at a time. It is wise to consider in each moment about how to great win-win outcomes for all involve. Yup. Thinking is good.




























The world around us is created from the world in us. How you think, talk, feel & act towards others is given back. This is one of life’s most suppressed secrets.



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Guilt should only be for actions taken, not for thoughts, feelings, or experiences

We all make mistakes and mess up sometimes. It’s part of life, and it’s necessary for growth. And when we mess up, it’s natural to feel bad about it. After all, guilt is often what teaches us what NOT to do again.

But the word “do” is really important there. If we feel guilty for saying something that hurts someone’s feelings, we’ve learned to not do that next time. If we’re careless and break something, we learn not to do that.

But when we beat ourselves up for feeling a certain way, or because a certain thought comes to our minds, or because we were in a situation beyond our control where we thought we shouldn’t be… what lesson is that guilt supposed to teach us?

I mean, if you want to learn to have greater control over your thoughts and emotions, that’s great. It’s challenging, but possible, and I’m rooting for you. But even with all the efforts possible to master our thoughts and feelings, we will never have absolute control over them. Nor do I think we should TRY to have total control.

So much of what we experience in life is beyond our control. Outside influences in our environment, our biological responses to stiluli, and even the outcomes of events themselves are very often determined by external forces.

That’s not to say we’re powerless, but it is to say that it’s unrealistic to assign personal responsibility for everything that goes on in our lives.

What we ABSOLUTELY DO have control over is our CHOICES. The words we say, the actions we take, those are the things that define us.

So the next time you’re feeling guilty about being mad at someone, stop a minute. Is that guilt instructing you to do something different? Or is it just spending extra mental and emotional energy on an experience you’re having? Wouldn’t it be more productive to just let yourself acknowledge the experience, feel what you feel, and then use that mental energy to control your behavior and make sure you don’t DO something you’ll regret?

I realize I’m getting kind of long-winded here, and honestly the title is probably enough to get my point across. But I spent so many years as a teen and young adult feeling guilty for how I felt or what I thought, and it took me a long time to overcome that. I see a lot of people on Tumblr going through the same experience and I guess…

I guess I just wanted to DO something about it.

anonymous asked:

Oi amor, então será que tu pode me indicar as actions e psds que tu usa? São muito lindos ❤

aaa obrigada!! Aqui a lista:

Actions:

  • topaz da troianbelles: x (v1 ou v2)
  • selenapastel: x x (a primeira eu costumava usar bastante e é aconselhável em imagens com qualidade boa e a última é pra gif)
  • stuffedwards: x (essa é a que eu uso todo dia aqui, minha fav)

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Esses são meus favse os que eu mais uso aqui, se vcs quiserem de todas as cores, me peçam porque eu sei de vários! s2

“Our actions in the present build the staircase to the future. The question is whether that staircase is going up or down.”

~ Craig D. Lounsbrough

I wasn’t closely following s1 of Druck so idk how it was done back then with Hanna and Sam,

but it feels nice (like, totally awful but also nice) seeing how this transmedia thing helps to build their story. In other versions we just know that Isak gets outed, in skam fr “half of the school” knows before Lucas talks to Yann, but here they show the actual spreading and what’s going on what Matteo can’t see. It’s awful to watch because we sympathize with Matteo, but it’s also fascinating? And realistic.

I don’t wish bad things on anyone. I really hope that people, in the end, are happy and loved and cared for. However, before that end comes, they need to be handed a lesson by karma. The negativity, the hatred, the secrets, the lying, the manipulation, and the pure evil won’t get anyone far. If they continue down the path they are on, they are asking for trouble. In the end people may find peace, I hope they do, but until then…you reap what you sow.

You can be filled with the Holy Spirit because grace is unearned, and still think like the devil and pretend as if you’re right when you’re way wrong because your actions prove so, so there’s no judgment when your actions speak louder.

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    Estive um tanto ausente dos meus textos ultimamente, mas não foi por mal. Não sei exatamente o motivo, mas não tive tantas ideias nem muita vontade de escrever, mesmo sendo algo que eu goste muito de fazer. Mas, espero voltar com mais frequência, não quero deixar de lado meus textos nem mesmo meu exercício de escrita, mesmo que poucas pessoas leem o que tenho a escrever. Mas algo tem acontecido nos últimos dias e gostaria de compartilhar um pouco sobre essas corriqueiras experiências que, apesar de serem algo um tanto pequeno, tem sido um tanto revolucionário para mim.

    Eu tenho desenvolvido um novo hábito: meditação. Já adianto que não, não entendo nada sobre, apenas sou uma iniciante que está entusiasmada num quarto que cheia a incenso. Mas, recentemente, meu namorado e eu estamos interessados em meditação, em tirar um tempinho por dia para focar em nós mesmos, em nossos corpos, nas nossas sensações e sentimentos. E tem sido maravilhoso. Nesses poucos minutos por dia, sinto minha respiração, os movimentos sutis que meu corpo faz quando inspiro e quando expiro, no toque das minhas roupas sobre a pele, na forma como a fumaça perfumada entra em mim. Mantenho o foco,  e quando um pensamento alheio surge, deixo-o ir embora, mantendo o foco no meu corpo e no momento presente. 

    Pode parecer pouco, mas esses poucos minutos tem exercitado não apenas o meu foco, mas também a minha noção de presença, sobre estar aqui e agora. Sobre sentir que existo, que estou nesse ponto de espaço-tempo e que devo manter-me aqui, com corpo e mente integrados num só. Não sei explicar sobre uma perspectiva mais prática quais foram os benefícios, mas posso dizer que, toda vez que acabo de meditar, sinto-me grata, sinto-me mais viva e concreta, e, ao mesmo tempo, leve.

    Acho importante tirarmos sempre um tempo para nós mesmos. Seja para tomar um café, para conversamos com alguém querido, para cuidar da nossa estética - se isso for algo feito com carinho, como forma de ficarmos bem - ou simplesmente para parar alguns poucos minutos em um quarto fechado com incenso e velas. A todo o tempo ficamos preocupados com tantas coisas de uma vez só, que não conseguimos resolver nenhuma delas, apenas sentimos mais ansiedade e medo de não sermos capazes de lidar com todas essas tarefas. Algo que pode ser bom é focar no aqui e agora, na nossa presença no mundo e também diante esses problemas. É preciso força e serenidade para não entrarmos em desespero, usar nossa energia para a resolução desses problemas, e não para alimentar mais ainda os nossos anseios.

    Tenho reservado tempos para mim mesma. Quando tudo parece dar errado, ou quando minhas questões se acumulam e nada mais parece fazer sentido, quando estou perdida entre angústias e não encontro saída, saio para respirar. Saio para tomar um capuccino, ou para comprar algum incenso novo, ou para ver se já chegou a revista que tanto quero nas bancas. Saio com meu namorado para tomar um sorvete, ou tiramos um tempo simplesmente para tomar uma cerveja enquanto vemos série. É importante termos uma pausa, para respirarmos um pouco, tomarmos fôlego antes de embarcarmos novamente em nossos percursos.